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Change the boyfriend? Don't be with someone who tells you you're too fat when you're skinny already. That's it. Have some self respect.

Have you even told him you posted all those NSFW pics online?

This got grosser and grosser as I read it.

Sorry, but it sounds like the issue is that you need a very specific type of constant validation. And you happen to be with someone who likes you for more than just your body. At first I thought his skinnier girl thing was a dick move by him. But reading the rest of this, I don’t think he said that in the way you relayed.

Nah she’s just 19 give her a break. OP yes your hot.

Talk to your BF about your needs. If he changes, it was just blind stupidity because 22 year old guys are dumb as fuck. If he doesn’t, time to move on. I think my wife’s the most beautiful woman in the world no matter weight, after having kids, no makeup, etc. your young. Don’t strive for anything less than that.

Ye i do need validation

Yes