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You ask him not her. Dont play stupid games, you can only win stupid prizes. Chance is it meant nothing. However, if you do not trust him, stop being with him or you could also open up about your insecurity, talk it out and be repsonsibly for your own feelings and hold him accountable for his actions and words. Like an adult.

Don't go behind your boyfriends back to message this girl about their relationship, talk to him instead.

I say my bosses and my best friends name accidentally all the time, doesn't mean I'm in a relationship with them.

A few months in and you're already ready to text another girl to see if they have something going on?? Yeah, I couldn't be in a relationship where I feel the need to do that.

Generally speaking, I call everybody everybody's name especially when i am sleepy. And it has nothing to do with me having feelings for the other person. If I were to call my boyfriend ABC and he called ABC to see if we had a thing, I'd break up with him.

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I've called my ex by our cat's name several times and my bf by my sister's bf's name. Sleepy brains do stupid stuff.

I'd only worry if it was a name that's never come up before.

So you STARTED the relationship already long distance?? Sounds like a dumb relationship that provides you stress and anxiety without any of the benefits relationships usually bring

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