OP, there is less of an age difference between your boss’s child and you than between you and him.

You may not want to hear this, you may not like that you have been victimized again.

Abusers look for people who are in abusive situations because even a step above absolute shit is still being treated like shit. It might be better than where you came from, but it is still shit.

Look at that ten year old little girl. In five years would you let her date a 30 year old man?

To be that little girl’s mom, you would have been ten when she was born. Literally the age she is now.

Do you think she is ready to be a parent?

I’m sorry that no one here can give you the answers of how to make your shit situation into the fairytale that you want to believe it is. Only you have the power to change your situation.

Everyone here knows that you are in a psychologically abusive relationship.

As long as you are young and pretty and you do EVERYTHING he tells you to, he won’t hurt you. He will never let you become independent. And once you have matured beyond his preference, or start to show a spine, he will begin tearing you down until he finds another child to abuse in your place.

If you are lucky, he will throw you away. If you aren’t lucky, he will kill you and then throw your body away.