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[deleted] t1_j2feqmq wrote

Reply to comment by peakpenguins in [19F][34M] My boyfriend wants me to focus on taking care of his daughter. by throwra7272727262

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peakpenguins t1_j2feyoe wrote

Honey your self-esteem issues and bad past are exactly why he's able to prey on you. A good partner wants what is best for you and he 100% knows that's not passing on college so you can stay home and watch his kid. He knows that and he doesn't care.

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[deleted] t1_j2ffwf5 wrote

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peakpenguins t1_j2fg14w wrote

He does enough to fool you into thinking this is a good relationship.

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[deleted] t1_j2fgjuz wrote

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polthedol t1_j2fheit wrote

Sorry… are you his employee still? Or have you “upgraded” to partner officially? The age difference considering your ages is gross. He hired you to look after his kid. That is his end game here. Believing anything else is foolish at best. Go to college. Jeez.

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vik_thewomaninblack t1_j2fkepg wrote

I reckon the few dates a month are cheaper than paying an hourly rates for a babysitter, so there's that

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polthedol t1_j2fkzsf wrote

Haha probably close to the truth there….

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[deleted] t1_j2fqu0k wrote

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polthedol t1_j2ft1q1 wrote

Hahahaha ok. I look forward to the post in a couple of years when this predator you are so in love with replaces you with another 19 year old kid that he can manipulate and control. Good luck

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Hal_Jordan55 t1_j2flt46 wrote

What's best for you or what he decides is best for you?

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[deleted] t1_j2fib58 wrote

This is grooming. He took advantage of your vulnerability to position himself as the only person you can trust, which is then leveraged into control.

Go to school. If he freaks out about it, that should indicate to you that he doesn’t want you to improve yourself or be independent, he just wants you trapped at home taking care of him and his child.

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