tlf555 t1_j2ebiw6 wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:04 PM

Maybe sit down and do monthly planning together. Keep a spreadsheet with planned payment goals, and then check in monthly to see where you are at.

You seem reasonable, accepting that he has made mistakes in the past. Its perfectly normal that you would just want to agree on a path to move forward. As newlyweds, you are probably planning for things like a home purchase, potential kids, etc.

SweetLeoLady33 t1_j2ebza7 wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:07 PM

Absolutely, I’m scared his credit will slow us from getting a house and I am currently expecting. It’s hard for me because I’m already a homeowner so I am not used to apartment style living & I certainly don’t want to bring a baby to an apartment. I was hoping we could buy before summer, but idk that that will happen with where he is.