I will turn it off but I don't know how to get to the footage, I'll have to mess around and check.

Thank you, you're right I should probably be a bit more assertive but I'm genuinely scared of her reaction to this particular situation. Anything else I would be able to be super honest with her but this is harder because I'm hoping I'm being paranoid but she can make me feel confused so I feel like I'm losing my mind at the moment lol