BeaArt78 t1_j2drtb1 wrote on December 31, 2022 at 2:42 PM

Reply to comment by ldsgirl2022 in (31F) (21M) Mutual Attraction? Dealing with a Major Crush On My Guy Friend by ldsgirl2022

But you're allowing him to by responding. You obviously like it or youd block him and ignore him.

ldsgirl2022 OP t1_j2dsk4b wrote on December 31, 2022 at 2:48 PM

I didn't like it before, I tried blocking him but he found a way around it and apologized for his stalker like behavior. He could not understand why I did not like his attention and said he just loves me and wants to be there for me.

BeaArt78 t1_j2dt7ow wrote on December 31, 2022 at 2:53 PM

So block again. You arent required to respond to him.

ldsgirl2022 OP t1_j2dtv8c wrote on December 31, 2022 at 2:58 PM

I blocked because he is younger and I thought he was just a horny younger guy but he showed me his is very mature and capable of loving me. I like how he makes me feel, and he likes how I respond to how he is with me. It is hard for us to ignore this. I won't be blocking him.

BeaArt78 t1_j2dvbtk wrote on December 31, 2022 at 3:09 PM

Ok then date him. I dont know what else to tell you. You seem to be looking for validation rather than advice. .

ldsgirl2022 OP t1_j2dw7oa wrote on December 31, 2022 at 3:16 PM

Asking for validation would be saying that I am considering dating him. I am not. I am acknowledging that he was acting like a boyfriend and wants to keep this dynamic going, but because I like who he is I do not know if I should go along with this because we are both marriage minded.

Are you saying I am in denial ? This whole time I was fine with believing him and are just friends and it will never go past that. You make it seem like he is ready to hump my leg if I don't cut him off.