This post reads really bizarrely. First, it's important to point out that he's not "preying" on younger women. As long as they're over 18 they're consenting adults in a consensual relationship with another adult. Second, you set you limit at 30 but you were attracted to this guy and a consenting participant in the relationship. It's so weird that you judge him for that but not yourself in the same way. From what you say, he's a good boyfriend too. So where's the "preying?" It just seems so needless judgemental when you consented to this relationship and haven't stated that you feel like he coerced or forced you into anything but that he somehow "preys" on adult women.