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Complex-Bear3774 t1_iy7q4zl wrote

Reply to comment by RunsWlthScissors in I drunk cheated at a party by Throwawayy-9809

It sounds like you’re trying to figure out if he NEEDS to rat himself out…..slippery slope

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RunsWlthScissors t1_iy7tix1 wrote

Absolutely I am, it just depends on situation.

If this is a 35 year old dude on a business trip with kids at home that’s one thing. I tend to prioritize stable homes for kids where total life destruction can be avoided if dad can quit drinking and keep it in his pants. Definitely not ethically good, but not evil either imo.

If it’s a 20 something, just own up. At that point accountability helps you not become midlife crisis dude above. He’s probably fucked anyway at that point, so be honest with her and break up. I’m sure he would want it in her shoes. That drinking is an escape.

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