yougotabrandnewkey t1_iydi9gj wrote on November 30, 2022 at 4:26 PM

Oh man, your partner doesn’t show you nearly enough respect. Them being small things just shows how much this is their true colors. Even if they’re going through something, they are completely failing their responsibility of behavior. This won’t go away, and if something more serious comes up, you won’t be able to depend on them. I’m sorry you’re going through this

biggirlsause t1_iydpn69 wrote on November 30, 2022 at 5:14 PM

It’s their house though, you can’t expect a complete change in routine right away. And in regards to respect, the op should respect the fact that it is their partner’s house not theirs, and should not demand they bend over backwards to accommodate them in every way possible. It’s a two way street.