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[deleted] OP t1_iyfda5u wrote

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I posted another thing with signs of me thinking he’s cheating. There’s so many signs but he denies it. I try to communicate with him but it’s turns into a fight.

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Catwhacker t1_iyfdwl3 wrote

K you tried communicating and it didn’t work. Time to reconsider if this is what you want. Don’t think “if only (insert bad behavior) changed, I’d be happy…” In the dating game, you work with what you have in the moment. Could you be happy in a commitment with him assuming he stays exactly the same for the rest of your life? Depending on how you answer that question, you will know whether to stay or go

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[deleted] OP t1_iyfelu5 wrote

Well he said he would change but, it hasn’t happened and we been on and off for about a year now. But I don’t I always think about that question.

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