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MckittenMan t1_iybi2au wrote

Yeah, when there is zero balance like that, its not healthy.

You have to side with your partner and validate their feelings. And a good partner would challenge you occasionally (not always agreeing with what you say).

Except when he always is defaulting to the other side, it shows he stands more against you, than with you.

If a partner always stood next to you... it would make the times of disagreement more viable. It would be done out of good intentions, rather than disagreeing for the sake of no respect.

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Spoon_o_jelly t1_iybijid wrote

Thank you! I couldn't put it into words exactly, but you helped me. I have spoken to him about this before , but I struggle with words not in text format.

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