Now I'll say what your words sound like to me - like you are looking at her as a provider and have no empathy for her. She's not a person in your eyes, but an object. Sometimes people need a break. She's feeling unwell, and instead of trying to support and understand her and look for solutions, you are worried how this might affect your life. God forbid you had to support her if HER saving ran out, bc she took 5 days leave. Unfortunately, I know people like you and you will not make a good partner for anyone. I hope she gets therapy and moves away from you.