alot of people have commented some really good insight.

My BF was no-marriage in the beginning of the relationship because his parents got divorced.

We went to his friend’s wedding together and he realised that it’s basically a big party with everyone you love and got really excited about the idea, forgot all about the potential of divorce.

Have you ever been to a wedding together? Maybe going to a friend’s or relatives will help him relax on his strict ideation of what it is. Not saying you should try to change him or anything but it’s what happened in my relationship.