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Why not look at the answers when you posted this 3 days ago.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/z5kdyo/comment/ixwlgx5/?context=3&sort=top

Well you are forcing fatherhood on him, but that’s the consequence of having sex. Especially unprotected sex.

You’ve made the decision to have a child with someone who does not want to be a father. This is unfair to your kid, but you have a couple options:

• take him to court for child support and then deal with him not wanting to be involved in the child’s life.

• completely cut him out and do this alone. You will be taking on the burden of raising a person who will have serious attachment issues. It’d be good for you to seek counseling or research what it means for someone to be raised without a father. Statistics for children like that aren’t great.

Your ex is being immature, but he has a right to not want to be a parent.

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That doesn’t make any sense. What would cause him to think you’re infertile? Did you mention you thought you were?

So he was willing to try for a baby because he thought it’d never happen? I feel like we’re missing some info here.

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He sounds incredibly dumb which is unfortunate.

Maybe he doesn’t want the baby because the relationship didn’t work out? Idk, it’s strange that he changed his mind.

Not a popular opinion, but this is part of the reason why people get married before they have children. There’s more security there and you know your partner has made a major commitment before. Not sure why you’d have a baby with someone after only a year…

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