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idkthisisathorowaway t1_iydcl7g wrote

Both parties should ideally provide in a committed relationship, it sets up a very unbalanced relationship when there's only a single breadwinner

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ThommyChi OP t1_iyddkzf wrote

Like I said she pays for groceries and electric And I pay $1000 rent and $100 for internet.

Max she spends on groceries is $500. But I’d much rather shop smart and have a plan every week. I feel like I don’t have a voice or that she never validates my concerns, whether financial or emotional because of the things she does

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