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rotonoscope t1_iyev2na wrote

I understand how you feel, but it should also be known that it's not necessarily another person's job to heal those pains and scars.

I think other people have the capacity to help, but we must also be willing to put the work in for ourselves, so that we can move forward. It may be a long, uphill battle, but it is not always impossible.

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EfficientCounty3648 t1_iyevujt wrote

True.. it just feels like I’m climbing the hill.. just need someone to cheer me on and hold my hand at the top to pull me through

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rotonoscope t1_iyew53y wrote

Acknowledging you need help or can't get through it alone is a very particular kind of strength. Can I ask about what's going on/what's got you feeling this way?

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EfficientCounty3648 t1_iyewwdf wrote

Just having trouble leting it go.. i know I’m strong enough to overcome whatever this is.. But my brain keeps going back to the pain i felt.. I need to forgive this person to move forward.. i need to let it go..but I can’t

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rotonoscope t1_iyf2ggd wrote

Do you think forgiving this person will help you move forward?

Forgiveness should always be given when you're ready, but there's no need to rush there.

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