This is not just invasive, it's creepy. Picking the lock when you're in the bathroom?? That's completely unacceptable. Never ok. And cleaning your desk and commenting on your private art practice is SO horribly invasive. god that must have felt awful.

"I don't know why you think it's ok to invade my privacy in the bathroom or in my personal spaces. I don't know why you haven't listened to me saying I don't want you to do those things. But hear me now. It is NEVER ok to barge in when I'm in the bathroom and it is NEVER ok to touch my desk or to touch or read anything on it. I NEVER want you to do that again. This is a deal-breaker for me. If you do it again I will leave you.