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dancing_chinese_kid t1_iuibf5s wrote

>So my dilemma is, should I do him the favour of letting him know the reason I won't go back, or just stay polite and say nothing?

How is that a favor to him?

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WildlifePolicyChick t1_iuie8a6 wrote

Because if he brings other friends and/or Lady Friends to his place and they too find it disgusting, then yeah he'd probably want to know that.

I know I would.

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DisMyLik8thAccount OP t1_iuic2qh wrote

Like I said, it might open his eyes to it, so he won't have the same problem when bringing girls, or even just friends, home in the future

If everyone's too polite to say anything, he'll end up 35 y/o wondering why he's never got passed the talking phase

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dancing_chinese_kid t1_iuichjg wrote

You don't know that will happen and you're not the authority. Speak only for yourself.

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DisMyLik8thAccount OP t1_iuicpsj wrote

What?

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dancing_chinese_kid t1_iuiefsd wrote

You don't know he'll end up alone because of how messy his place is. For all you know he'll meet a woman tomorrow who doesn't care and they fall in love.

Tell him you want a cleaner place all you want, though, but this idea that you're doing him a favor is silly.

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DisMyLik8thAccount OP t1_iuif562 wrote

Think you're looking into this all a bit too deeply man, maybe taking it a little personal

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dancing_chinese_kid t1_iuik1qu wrote

I'm married to my HS sweetheart and sleeping in the same clean bed every night. Nothing personal to take from it. :)

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DisMyLik8thAccount OP t1_iuik794 wrote

Fun fact this guy was my high school crush, don't plan on marrying him though

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WildlifePolicyChick t1_iuiefye wrote

She IS speaking for herself, in hopes it might save him social embarrassment later.

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