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UnsightlyFuzz t1_iuk8azh wrote

Reply to comment by tvbee876 in I’m in love with my best friend by tvbee876

Instead of confessing to him, why don't you just seduce him.

You know... a slowly escalating dance of light touches, maybe the occasional heart emoji on a text, use of terms of endearment, invitations to stay later and longer, etc.

I don't know why more people don't use this approach. Confessing feelings seems so stark. Besides, even if he doesn't have feelings now, with a seduction approach he may develop them.

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tvbee876 OP t1_iuk94rh wrote

We always use terms of endearment and heart emojis but we started using them right from the start so they’re more of a friendship thing. I also lightly touch him or grab his arm occasionally but like I’ve mentioned he’s very shy and never wants to overstep any boundaries so he accepts my gestures but never touches me in any way other than hello/goodbye hugs.

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