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solivia916 t1_iuk3i3a wrote

You have to be able to deal with the possibility that if you say something and he doesn’t have feelings for you, the friendship is already significantly changed by the confession alone. You might be able to stay friends, but it will like ringing a bell, once it’s out there there is no taking it back. That said: I think you should tell him anyway. Love is never a waste; and you might regret telling him but you will 100% regret never saying anything.

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tvbee876 OP t1_iuk43gm wrote

You’re right. But we’re both of the mindset that the guy should usually initiate the first move, and he has mentioned how scared he is of rejection. So maybe this a one sided thing and I should just burry me feelings and live with it because if he did feel something he would say it? I have dropped hints before but he’s a little slow when it comes to this kind of stuff.

😭😭😭😭😭😭 this is so hard!!!

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solivia916 t1_iuk60vk wrote

You should say something, especially if he has mentioned a fear of rejection he could be afraid to and if it doesn’t work out you have a better chance of remaining friends if he is an understanding person.

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