Knale t1_iuhq2rr wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Is it unhealthy for me (31f) not to want to get to know one of my bf's (38M) friends? by [deleted]
> Would it bother you less if your partner said "I've met them, and I just can't stand them and don't want to be around them."
Yes. Of course. Obviously. Because this shows that they made an effort to try and see who this person is before judging them unfairly.
>but what if instead it makes everything more difficult?)
You still haven't actually explained why you think that someone posting skin on instagram somehow precludes someone from being pleasant to chat with. Those two things have literally nothing to do with each other.
You don't need to endorse her social media use to get along with her. That's immature and silly.
[deleted] OP t1_iuhrjgi wrote
It's not just that. I didn't want to get into details, but main issue is thas a history of getting very physical with people around her at parties and hangouts. Yes, even girls who have partners who are present. That's a situation I want to avoid because of previous bad experiences. I wouldn't be able to handle it well if it happened.
Knale t1_iuhrwfk wrote
>I didn't want to get into details, but main issue is thas a history of getting very physical with people around her at parties and hangouts. Yes, even girls who have partners who are present.
Without details I don't know what this means. Does she hug people? Does she grab people genitals?
I hug and touch all sorts of people at parties, yes, even with my girlfriend present. You continue to be really cagey with details and without those details it's impossible to determine how reasonable this all is.
[deleted] OP t1_iuhs4ix wrote
Groping. Grabbing ass/boobs. I wouldn't gaf if it was about hugs and stuff.
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