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lostgofl OP t1_iujjgqa wrote

I think I’ve always known this, I just needed to hear it from someone else. Thanks. Now I’m an adult and have to pull myself out of bad patterns. It is a difficult responsibility, putting myself back in therapy might be the next step.

It is very sad because it means admitting to myself that my parents failed their task and I suffer the consequences. All of my choices are my own, but how much agency does a young woman really have?

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murderousbudgie t1_iujjrxm wrote

It's a trope for a reason, you're in no way broken in some unique or unfixable way. And you seem incredibly self-aware. Best of luck!

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TuggNiceman t1_iujl2ml wrote

>It is very sad because it means admitting to myself that my parents failed their task and I suffer the consequences.

Join the club. :(

It's not okay, but it's going to be alright.

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