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samzimms t1_iui5yuk wrote

Did she say anything or just send the photo? Could she have mistakenly sent it to the wrong person? How did you husband reply?

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sugarfreespree t1_iui9xdb wrote

He said “nice” he doesn’t encourage her. I talked to him about it and he was not defensive at all. I think he recognizes why it’s weird, but also we “need” her for some projects and in general she’s a nice person, but I do think she’s developed a crush, and he agreed that’s possible and will keep tabs on it and shut it down if it gets too weird.

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samzimms t1_iuiacor wrote

Well that sounds very reasonable. Have faith in your husband. I'd stay aware of what she is doing, but otherwise realize that when she doesn't get the attention she is seeking, it will pass.

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sugarfreespree t1_iuib8d1 wrote

Oh yeah I have total faith in the man. He’s amazing and completely trustworthy. It’s the woman that bothers me, and it makes me feel disrespected.

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