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What exactly do you want?

If you are having a problem with this, you should change where you look for a more meaningful connection.

Companionship and a real connection. But since I'm a guy who likes to dance, that never comes from people I meet in the clubs.

I guess I'm wondering why meaningful connections can't come from clubs?

Yea... because you are at a club? People don't go to clubs or bars to find a meaningful relationship dude. If that is what you are looking for, then the bar/ club scene is not your thing

They can, but it's perhaps less likely.

Whether it's a club, movie theater, pottery class or bingo night, not everyone is there looking for a meaningful connection. Only a percentage of people are ready for that.

But go to a dating website and all of a sudden everyone is ready for a meaningful connection (if you sort out those looking for something casual).

If you’re looking for a relationship… stop looking for one at the club… period. Join a dating site

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Cmon man, you should know any meaningful relationship isn’t found at the clubs. Go look at target or the local coffee shop. Better yet, find other hobbies that aren’t clubbing that you enjoy and you’re bound to find a girl with similar values/interests

Stop looking for a relationship at clubs, on tinder or at some bar. You’ll likely find relationship material girls at: gym, somewhere you go as a hobby(ex: playing and instrument) or a friend of a friend. Hope this helps 👍🏻