🚩 You need to get him into therapy now! ⚠️ Find a safe environment that you can go to at any immediately instance. ⚠️Also you need an emergency locator on your phone, if he snaps you need to be able to call 911 immediately. ⚠️ There are plenty of hidden apps in case of domestic violence. Reading what you said would put me on edge and would remove myself from that situation. 🚩 You're also going to have custody issues that would be of concern in the future.⚠️ Safety for them should be a priority as well (As in supervised visitation with a 3rd party) as well as 3rd party pick up/drop off. 🚩If you don't pay attention to the potential danger here, it could possibly cost you your life or your children's lives! The red flag is the calm and mellow contrast to the angry hidden person. I hope you can see the warning signs because they are right in front of your face!