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sxfrklarret t1_iujnsh0 wrote

Reply to comment by Capricondor in My wife (F 30) started talking with a therapist and wasn't ready to tell me (M 29). She lied about what she was doing and I dug in. Now she's mad that I didn't trust her but I'm mad she lied to me. by [deleted]

She didn't gas light you, YOU didn't trust her. It a therapist! didn't you think after you found that out she might be slightly embarrassed and hasn't been strong enough to talk about it yet? But then you come on here wanting to told you were in the right, you weren't you were/are wrong

I couldn't care less what apps my wife uses to chat with others and never ask not about the app or who she is talking to. If she wants me to know she will tell me.

If I had so little trust in my SO like most men on Reddit I would get divorced and never be with anyone ever again.

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Lord_Swaglington_III t1_iujqq6b wrote

Why is he to blame for not trusting her when she did lie to him? Isn’t that when you shouldn’t trust someone? He should apologize for her being a bad liar?

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