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UsefulIncome5187 OP t1_iuhidyq wrote

Reply to comment by hecatonchires266 in My gf 19f and I 20m are currently in long distance and I don’t think I can do it anymore by UsefulIncome5187

I have a house and I’ve lived in it for 4 months now I have a stable job and it pays alright and rents very cheap were I am

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hecatonchires266 t1_iuhijp5 wrote

That's you mate and you're a man. She's 19yrs. Would you advice your 19yr old sister if you had one to go live with some guy in another state?

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UsefulIncome5187 OP t1_iuhipza wrote

I’m not just some guy I’ve visited many times and so has she her family and I are on very good terms.

Not trying to argue with you either just making sure you have all the information

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hecatonchires266 t1_iuhiujg wrote

Yes that's just visiting but you haven't answered my question.

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UsefulIncome5187 OP t1_iuhj0a7 wrote

If I had know the guy for 3 years and lived with him for weeks at a time yes I think I would

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hecatonchires266 t1_iuhj6f9 wrote

I still would not do that. Not at that age. Yes she's an adult at 19 and capable of her decisions but still it would be a worry. If she's not ready to move to be with you then don't force it. Let her decide if she wants to.

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