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hecatonchires266 t1_iuhi8c5 wrote

She's 19yrs. She's can't just uproot herself from her folks home with no plan in place on where to go to, where to stay, and also bills to be paid. If you don't understand this, the you shouldn't be dating her.

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UsefulIncome5187 OP t1_iuhidyq wrote

I have a house and I’ve lived in it for 4 months now I have a stable job and it pays alright and rents very cheap were I am

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hecatonchires266 t1_iuhijp5 wrote

That's you mate and you're a man. She's 19yrs. Would you advice your 19yr old sister if you had one to go live with some guy in another state?

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UsefulIncome5187 OP t1_iuhipza wrote

I’m not just some guy I’ve visited many times and so has she her family and I are on very good terms.

Not trying to argue with you either just making sure you have all the information

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hecatonchires266 t1_iuhiujg wrote

Yes that's just visiting but you haven't answered my question.

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UsefulIncome5187 OP t1_iuhj0a7 wrote

If I had know the guy for 3 years and lived with him for weeks at a time yes I think I would

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hecatonchires266 t1_iuhj6f9 wrote

I still would not do that. Not at that age. Yes she's an adult at 19 and capable of her decisions but still it would be a worry. If she's not ready to move to be with you then don't force it. Let her decide if she wants to.

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