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You've fallen in to a bucket of titties and are in danger of coming out sucking your thumb.

Dude just ask her out. You've aleady had your tongue in her mouth.

75% sure she likes you? Really? At that point, it feels more like you're playing the hard to get one to fan your ego.

Nah this is nothing to do with ego i am just overthinking this whole thing and basing it on the text messages which I need to stop doing

Because her texts are dry? Meaning what? Not filled with flowery poetry proclaiming her shy, blushing, and yet burning and all consuming love for you? Or should she be sending your dick pics back captioned "let me jump on this"? What are you really expecting from texts?

Sorry I didn’t mean to offend you. But you’re right idk what I am expecting and it’s pathetic for me to base my thoughts on the texts

Ovethinking never leads anywhere good, it sounds like you are building a lot of expectations for how you want things to go and how she should react, but that simply isn't how relationships work, from what you said I would say it is pretty clear she is interested in you, no one comes back for 3 dates and a makeout session with someone they aren't interested in. The hard part is already over, just let the relationship take its natural course and enjoy it for it is. With regards to next steps if you've been going out for dates, maybe something like cooking her dinner and a movie at your place? Not sure it matters to much in that regard, but keep it up and don't be afraid to try to initiate things.