Submitted by Successful_List_8114 t3_yio3ih in relationship_advice
Constant_External_30 t1_iujxg1i wrote
The opportunity has already presented itself. The chemistry seems to go well between you both, but I would continue to build that foundation of the relationship and friendship. Continue to dive deeper. See where the compatability lies and then keep developing that bond. When that bond feels strong and tight-knit, ask her out.
You want to avoid only going out with her because of the physical sense, when and if things fall by the waste side because there was no strong bond. And that's coming from experience. So keep making yourself known, keep going out on dates and hanging out. Keep her close, but be careful about moving too fast and falling too hard. Take it slow, but not always too slow or too fast.
Successful_List_8114 OP t1_iujzgtd wrote
Do you think it would be a bad idea to send her a message about going plant shopping like I mentioned in my OP? I felt like I could play it off as platonic which is why I thought that would be a good option.
Constant_External_30 t1_iuk36qh wrote
Nope! Nor at all! By all means, always offer to make her included on things and activities you want to do. Plant shopping would be great! Something good and casual.
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