Submitted by AdOdd6304 t3_1279mdh in relationship_advice
Okey, let me explain a bit My gf (F24) and I (F26) been dating for about 4 year and we are getting married next year. Lately, we have been talking about having kids, since we have a stable relationship, great income and a beautiful house. Since I was little I have always dreamed about being a mom. So a couple night ago we were chatting about this, and she told me that she couldn't think of me pregnant since I'm more masculine than her. Also, she started to talk about how she wanted to only have children that we're biologically hers because (in her words) I have bad genes and her family wouldn't love the kid as much as if it was hers. It's needless to say I don't care if the baby is mine or hers biologically. I will love them. It was just the ways she said this things. Like I'm at some point "the men" here. I have always dreamed about being a mom but I'm not sure if this is something I should worry about. Reddit please help me.