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dekebasswood t1_jee2p5i wrote

OP? you do owe her an explanation. She probably has no idea what the hell is going on. Please tell her very briefly by the coffee pot or the water cooler or in her office? That you regret your behavior, and that you would like to discuss it further. Take her out to lunch. Somewhere casual. And tell her about your significant other. Apologize profusely for your behavior. Because it was stupid. And you know it. And then see if you guys can start over.

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someone_you_kno t1_jee8b4f wrote

If my bf kissed a work colleague and then took her to lunch a week later no matter the circumstance that would look extremely suspicious he should have a brief conversation about boundaries and explain he’s in a relationship and then tell his girlfriend because she deserves to know

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