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Civil-Finger6085 OP t1_jeb8y6q wrote

Reply to comment by Dvusmnd in Me(22F) and him (23M), I’m going nuts. by Civil-Finger6085

I already did!!! I broke up with him TWICE because of this!! he begged to take him back saying he will become a better person, but this happened yesterday.

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Dvusmnd t1_jebb0te wrote

What he means is he will do a better job of manipulating you into thinking he is doing better.

He has to recognize that he has a problem and work towards actually fixing himself. He is this way probably from some trauma he’s experienced but it’s very serious stuff.

People he does not respect he Will confidently manipulate or think he’s manipulating them. They can choose their own reality if it gets too bad. They convince themselves about what is really happening and gaslight others to fit that reality. It comes from a place of disrespect. You are not respected.

There are better humans available.

Find people who can be trustworthy, earn your respect and can be vulnerable and highly empathetic and you can avoid these types of people.

Hugs to you. You may have dodged a bullet.

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