I (20M) wants to ask her (21F) out or to a little coffee date but is it too late?

Submitted by firm_1101 t3_127un4r in relationship_advice

So last semester/december I had a class with this girl, lets call her Ava. Ava and I didn't talk a whole lot but talked during group discussions and whatnot because the entire class was class bonding type orientated.

Originally, I was not going to overthink/think about it much and just straight up ask her out. but now I kinda want to do something "funny" or whatnot to ask her out. Would it be too late?

And we were in a class groupme together but we also follow each other on Instagram... never had the chance to get her snapchat or number. Which is the better place to do it or so she sees it?

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YourRAResource t1_jefvdxf wrote

Don't do something "funny." Just ask her out on a date normally. It's not too late. Shoot your shot. You have nothing to lose. Good luck.

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AnalystOk5065 t1_jeg06wg wrote

Don't be funny. Just say "hey, I thought it would be cool to get to know you better. Can I buy you some coffee?"

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firm_1101 OP t1_jeg2o8b wrote

Replying to AnalystOk5065 (#2,544,896)

I see. i don't know which is better to ask her on tho, groupme or instagram?

I was also thinking of something along the lines of like "hey ava its been awhile, but you seemed cool id like to take you on a coffee date or whatever you like to drink"

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AnalystOk5065 t1_jeg3f49 wrote

Replying to firm_1101 (#2,545,642)

Maybe don't call it a date. That puts pressure on it. Just make it super casual. She'll probably get the idea that you're interested by saying you want to get to know her better. Either platform is probably fine, but Instagram messages seems better to me for some reason.

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