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ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jeexwk8 wrote

Reply to comment by Ok-fifi-78 in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779

I just confronted him. He denied everything and said I don’t need a crazy jealous gf. And he blocked me. I’m sure he’s gonna go running to my best friend now because he’s lonely and just wants to fuck around

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Ok-fifi-78 t1_jeeyc0n wrote

Then go talk to your best friend and show her all the evidence that he is seeing both of you.

This guy is no good. Already 45 and still a player and using women.

Do all you can to warn your best friend, the rest is up to her.

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ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jeeyjf1 wrote

I tried warning her again right now in a subtle way that if he wanted to be with her, he would do things different and her response was “you think I’m stupid? I know this isn’t my first rodeo (jokes) and claims that she doesn’t want anything with him other than fun sex

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Ok-fifi-78 t1_jeezc66 wrote

Did you tell her that he was seeing you both at the same time?

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ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jef35dk wrote

No I didn’t. I confronted him that I found out he’s been messing with another girl and he called me crazy and blocked me

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AeriePuzzleheaded675 t1_jef4zho wrote

Be more direct with her and if she blows you off, maybe think twice about the state if your friendship with her.

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