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[deleted] t1_jegg28i wrote

Reply to comment by tickleyourfanny in [26M] [24F] she was only dating me for sex and I feel kinda disgusted by throwRA283108

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tickleyourfanny t1_jeggk5r wrote

>She told me she said she didn’t want serious from the beginning

I dont really know why you can't accept that she already told you. More than once really..here listen to this song a bit, sums up your situation and what she wants.

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[deleted] t1_jeggmw0 wrote

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tickleyourfanny t1_jeghn9l wrote

probably is..You want to have something a bit more serious and she doesn't..Your brain is probably wired differently, might be from the overuse of stimulants by your mom while in you were in her belly...could also be that some people like to just take some cock, do some blow, take some more cock, do some more blow, munch some box, do some more blow, do some more blow and then pass out watching Oprah Winfrey...We all have different things of what we want.

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[deleted] t1_jeghw05 wrote

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegjffz wrote

definitely something wrong with you...I will keep biting the bait, i got a couple min.

lets try again...there is no right and wrong..some people want to have only Casual sex and others want a relationship. They are both correct..Nothing wrong with Casual sex( ask any pedophile) and nothing wrong with a more committed relationship (ask any pedophile). The two of you want two different things and there is nothing wrong with that. It didn't work out my man, now learn to bang coke hoes without falling in love, if you are so bothered..Here is your ultimate advice. Wear a condom cuz you absolutely dont know where dem chicken heads have been. You wont be able to put dem hoes on rewind if the std test get declined.

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[deleted] t1_jegjn62 wrote

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegjvfd wrote

I find with these type of posts there is always 'one little thing' that is being omitted and pops out later...its how to keep the line freshly baited, from what I hear. Again we all find different things enjoyable, know what I mean yet?

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[deleted] t1_jegkc9q wrote

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegkrsm wrote

You struggle to believe that different people want different relationships sometimes?????? I am clearly not a know it all since I cant understand your complaining in the slightest. Nor can you apparently..so how about you simply accept that some people want to party all the time and others don't.

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[deleted] t1_jegkz4d wrote

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegloqk wrote

the bait is so strong here it is hard to resist...I am giving you exactly what you want. hopefully you will give me what I want next..

well look at it this way...you meet someone and they show you and tell you exactly what they want. Have ok sex. Get on fine and then when you go to tell them you want them to stop and only focus on you, they do a line and tell you to move on as they have other things they enjoy..then they go do another line, have some amazing sex (trust me sex is not amazing when coked out), get on great, do some more coke and party..

>How many people do you know that do that.

well being I worked in bars/clubs for decades I can safely say I know a shit ton of people that do that...You might need to throw in a missing detail as the bait is getting kinda dry.

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[deleted] t1_jeglwyz wrote

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegm8yl wrote

Great. Then dont date party girls, unless you want to party..Looks like you just learned a life lesson. Kudos to you for the personal growth.

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegmxy1 wrote

> How many girls am I gonna meet that haven’t been through the wild non stop sex and coke stage

I am thinking most women dont go through the non stop sex and coke phase. Here is a thought, stop going to clubs and bars and start meeting women elsewhere. And by elsewhere I mean not at your coke dealers house or at the meth lab your neighbor runs or at the Casula sex parties your pastor throws in the shed out back of the church.

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[deleted] t1_jegn5wa wrote

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegnp8t wrote

Call me crazy but maybe you need a new circle of friends...you must work in a coke factory or perhaps a strip club? go ahead and try to get away from the coke, I assure you it is not hard at all to do...in fact most people dont do coke, every day/week. Most never do it at all...you may have a slightly skewed friend group..sure if all your friends are cokeheads/partiers then all you will see is that. the world is bigger than that my friend.

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[deleted] t1_jego0z6 wrote

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegp4zb wrote

> Take her for a drink. Turns out she smashes coke and MDMA at events and on weekends.

so what have we learned? did you go on a second date or did you nope out and go find someone who doesnt smash coke and MDMA before teaching 7th graders how to read a geography map...

>It does seem quite hard to hide from I won’t lie

perhaps you are then with the coke problem then, since everyone you know does it. Everyone at work does it, everyone at your bars do it, Your dates do it, your roommates do it....holy shit man, where in London cuz I need some coke and it just seems to follow you everywhere. It almost seems like what you want isnt going to happen in the social circle you live in. So try a different circle, it really isnt hard to find non partiers.

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegptvt wrote

> No I didn’t. I dated her for 2 months till she dumped me 😂

so the person you reference on hinge is the party girl from the OP.,,ok then..maybe learn your lesson this next time

>Actually, I find it really hard to make friends.

sounds like all you have to do is offer them some coke and they will hang out..Then mysteriously, when you dont have the party goods, they dont want to hang out? very confusing on why, must be your haircut or something, maybe sprinkle some coke on it and see if the style change brings them back....anyways, maybe make some friends that are into other things than just partying. I assure you they exist

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegrim6 wrote

>If I stopped doing that, which honestly I want to, I highly doubt they’d even want to see me again.

oh no, the horror....Might mean you would have to make new friends that aren't into the party scene. Which may lead to you dating a non-party girl. All sounds terrible if you have a nasty coke habit with some underlying alcoholism. Otherwise, it sounds fucking great.

Your new friends( you are in a new town right) all seem pretty transitional since the whole thing relies on you partying with them..Time for some new friends.

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegs65u wrote

Online. At events. At grocery stores. At book stores. Frisbee golf teams. Tennis at the club.

Just stop going to bars and drug dens and these new people and things to do will suddenly start magically appearing.

Take a sailing course. Take cheeses course. Watch the documentary 'wedding crashers' and go to funerals to pick up women. Go to church, no shortage of saturday night hoes feeling guilty, hitting that place up on Sundays. If you cant get a date in a church, you got problems ( ask any pedophile)

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hedbryl t1_jegtuds wrote

If the only people interested in you are party girls, that's entirely a you problem.

Are you employed, not obese, have your own place (ideally owning, or renting without roommates), have reliable transportation, shower regularly? That's really all it takes. Be a productive member of society and eventually you'll find another productive member of society interested in you.

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