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Kubuubud t1_jeegxqw wrote

With peace and love, there’s a reason he’s a grown man and dating someone who was a teenager at the start of the relationship, and it’s because he really should not get away with this behavior.

It sounds like he’s a mamas boy, and if he’s not willing to work on that, you’re signing up for this three way relationship. I would really not expect him to change at all

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ThrowRA_throwaways OP t1_jeehneb wrote

I think he is definitely a mamas boy and I think he likes being one so I think you’re right

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Kubuubud t1_jeei5if wrote

He doesn’t have to do anything at all he doesn’t want to. Hes able to be independent like an adult, but I’m reality he’s being coddled like a teenage boy.

Also sounds like an awful case of enmeshment/emotional incest. Where’s his dad at?

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ThrowRA_throwaways OP t1_jeeirjw wrote

His dad is around and still in the house but had a health scare and is now disabled, so I don’t know if that has something to do with his mum and him being the way they are?

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