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Far_Operation351 t1_jeftbsz wrote

Reply to comment by AnalystOk5065 in I'm (21F) Terrified He (24M) Will Cheat Again by [deleted]

The first time they were allegedly drunk..... but the others.. she said he initiated it every time and he couldn't give me a reason to why he did. He just sighed and shook his head and said "I don't know" so I got tired of asking why.

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Liveware_Failure t1_jefu76p wrote

So you essentially forgave him without consequences. Really sorry to say this, but he's probably going to cheat again.

There's an amazing Maya Angelou quote which applies here. 'When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.'

You're worried about the wrong thing here, his childhood friend isn't the issue, your boyfriend is the person who cheated on you and only stopped when he got caught.

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AnalystOk5065 t1_jefv181 wrote

Not guaranteed, but probably will at some point. Plus she'll never be able to shake this worry that he will.

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