My GF F23 is still tweeting about her ex! I'm worried and confused, any advice would help! Thank you M24

Submitted by jewlwy23 t3_127i25l in relationship_advice

My girlfriend is indirectly tweeting things about her ex like "I dodged a bullet big time" they follow each other on twitter. She posted on valentines day that she got loads of flowers from lots of guys, but i was the only one that gave her flowers, i don't have twitter but my friend who follows her asked her what's up with her tweets and she replied to him saying she likes taking digs at her ex and that he is still liking other girls photos. My friend told me about her tweets but my gf dosent know that i know about these tweets! She broke up with him in December and we got into a relationship in February. We've never spoke about our past because I don't believe it's nessasary. She tells me she loves me, we've had no problems or arguments in the relationship but i just find it weird and off putting that she is doing this. What do I do I'm confused 😕 what are your guys thoughts on this? this is my first relationship!

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OliviaPresteign t1_jee7zze wrote

Say you saw her tweets and ask her what’s up. Then you probably need to dump her because someone who cares this much about an ex isn’t ready for a new relationships.

Sounds like you’re the rebound.

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jmummert23 t1_jee95qu wrote

Yeah for sure sounds like OP is the rebound. Embrace it and enjoy it. Don’t fall in love.

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jewlwy23 OP t1_jee8ggg wrote

The problem is that her twitter is privated, don't want to get my friend muddled up in this because they're friends too :/

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OliviaPresteign t1_jeevhnr wrote

Then just go straight to dumping her. You don’t need her to confess unless you think your friend is lying to you.

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