Submitted by [deleted] t3_127k9da in relationship_advice
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Submitted by [deleted] t3_127k9da in relationship_advice
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They’re people saying whatever will make them money.
Stop watching them, they’re filling your head with poison and they’re going to make you so paranoid you cause the demise of your own relationship.
Red pills dudes have an audience of mostly dudes who can’t get women. They give AWFUL dating advice and are very off base about women. They give this awful advice to keep you single, and then going to them for more advice.
Block to red pill accounts or hit not interested when they pop up. Trust your girlfriend and maybe talk to someone about your insecurities
Stop watching that garbage - it only perpetuates these awful views about women like they will cheat and that will negatively impact your relationship being so insecure and untrusting all the time
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Gosc101 t1_jeeh1u7 wrote
First of all, those videos are delusional. They are selling simplification of reality where "they" (being women in this case) are the bad ones while you (men) are the good ones. Complete waste of your time.
Besides if you were to date a cheater, she would find a way to cheat regardless of your effort. Opportunity does not create cheaters, it only enables them. Conversely if she faithful, she will be so without your supervision as well.
Addressing alcohol issue. Yes getting dead drunk in bars/clubs can lead to many bad things, and cheating is far from the top of the list. However, it depends where would they go to, it's not every place is some pit full of predators. Not to mention they will be together in all girls group.