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ATVig t1_jecibaw wrote

You can end it now or wait a couple weeks/months until she does it a third time. It’s up to you.

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Janoxe t1_jedpwm3 wrote

Thanks alot, i think i have to end it…

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Corgi_Cake t1_jecihej wrote

Its over bud. You dont get that trust back. End it and start the process of moving on.

Trauma or upbringing aren't excuses for cheating. And make no mistake, what shes doing is cheating. Its irrelevant whether or not she actually hooked up with these guys.

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Janoxe t1_jedpz7x wrote

True, i also struggle with trust issues and i dont think i can get over this, so that the relationship works. Thanks for your answer!

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