Submitted by Mato2223333 t3_1284ebj in relationship_advice
So basically as the title says, I am a guy that is in a friend group with 3 girls and one other guy that is bisexual. We hang out multiple times a week and I really like spending time with them and I think that they fell the same way about me. We have been friends now for almost year and a half and had many many memorable experiences which I am sure I will remember for the rest if my life. The problem is that I feel like I am not part of the group as much as others because of, well me being a straight guy. Sometimes I am very quiet around them just because I can’t relate to the things they are saying (for example drag queens, other guys they like, astrology and so on) but also I am introverted by nature. I also have hard time expressing my emotions while all of the other friends are very emotional and they express it a lot. I also feel like that sometimes they don’t want me around because they only want girl company, I can understand this and respect that but still in those situations I feel like I am the odd one out and it can sometimes get pretty awkward. I was thinking of leaving the friend group because of this but my problem is that only other friend group I have is consisted mostly out of guys that I don’t really feel connected to, at least not as much as to my girls mostly friend group.
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