Submitted by GuyMuz t3_11clpox in relationship_advice
We weren’t exclusive, it was in the first month we were talking. She recently confessed to sleeping with 3 guys in that month, 2 people she’s already slept with and one new person.
It absolutely disgusted me.
She lied about not seeing anyone during that phase until now, I felt something was off about that and I pressed her about it. The lying really pissed me off.
She claims she was in a really bad place mentally and hated herself and her and I weren’t exclusive yet so she was just doing it. As soon as we became exclusive she hasn’t seen anyone or done anything.
She apologized so many times and reassured me that she would never lie again and at the end of the day she didn’t cheat because when we started dating she didn’t do anything.
How do I move past this? We weren’t dating so I shouldn’t be mad, but I am.