I guess it’s like that thing that people say. Which probably means it’s bullshit. But anyways… If you love something let it go if it comes back to you at yours forever. I thought that the story we were living. Her sister has mental illness also and lives with the family in Vietnam. People don’t recognize mental illness in Vietnam. No medication and no therapy. Her sisters life is really sad. She got married off to the neighbor, the farmer boy to get rid of her. Thinking that that’s the life that my ex could’ve had, there’s no way I could’ve allow that to happen.