OK that makes more sense. I’m of a mine were you may need to start making other friends. Do you have other people to go to that are outside of the group.

You can still say we broke up because he cheated and leave it at that. Because when you don’t do that you’re not even sticking up for yourself, you’re protecting his needs over your own. And he already did that. I had a group in my 20s like that to an eventually I just moved away from them. To nine own self be true.