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Noetherville t1_jacl3zt wrote

Neither. It’s paranoia and a red flag. Not cute!

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Murky_Anxiety4884 t1_jacm598 wrote

According to traditional etiquette, it's the polite thing to do, except that it shouldn't have anything, specifically, to do with your ass. I hope that part of the discussion was just a bad joke.

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Ingwall-Koldun t1_jacmxuk wrote

Walking outside of the path is supposed to be protective in terms of "if a car loses control and veers onto the sidewalk, let it hit me and not my girlfriend". Not because people are looking at your ass.

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[deleted] OP t1_jacovrv wrote

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esgamex t1_jacr52t wrote

His comment tells you all you need to know. What else does he do to keep people from looking at you?

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Ingwall-Koldun t1_jaczie2 wrote

If he doesn't exhibit any other signs of possessive controlling behavior, he might have been trying to be funny

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Acornwow t1_jad1p2o wrote

I wonder how he sleeps at night knowing that any man who happens to walk behind you might be able to look at your butt.

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