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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jacukkp wrote

Your post is so vague that it’s hard to give good advice.

I don’t know what you mean by “girlfriend duties” or what it is that you want to dial back.

Obviously you need to speak with him but you need to be far more specific than you are here or he isn’t going to have a clue what you’re asking for.

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abnormalaf OP t1_jacv7kf wrote

By dial it back I mean the part where I said "slow back down to more of a talking phase" rather than an official relationship.

Girlfriend duties as in: spending all my free time with him, having to be intimate, etc. Essentially his expectations for me as a girlfriend

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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jacvigp wrote

Don’t have sex you don’t want to have. And it’s not healthy to spend all of your free time with a partner.

It seems to me that you should forget dialing it back and just end it.

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