AITA-TA-unwanted t1_jacuawu wrote on February 28, 2023 at 2:58 PM

You don't. Just have the chat and if he leaves he leaves. Be prepared to be nothing more than a friends with benefits

abnormalaf OP t1_jacutmy wrote on February 28, 2023 at 3:02 PM

You're right, he might leave. But I don't want to have sex or be FWB. That's part of what I no longer want to feel pressured to do. I really feel like I want to know him a lot deeper before continuing to share my body and life with him. He definitely has the right to say "no thanks" and find someone else