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deemsterporn t1_jadwash wrote

Does he not work?

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RepresentativeSplit5 OP t1_jadwh5m wrote

He does work, we work at the same place and he makes more than I do.

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deemsterporn t1_jadwlyq wrote

What is his reason for not contributing?

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RepresentativeSplit5 OP t1_jadwsqr wrote

Well at certain points he said he doesn’t see a future with me, and that’s why. But he also took that back when we were getting along, and at several points did agree to pay rent, etc.

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RepresentativeSplit5 OP t1_jadwuhe wrote

Beyond that reason, I don’t know. There isn’t really one I’ve heard.

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deemsterporn t1_jadxq0k wrote

Seems like you've allowed this to go on too far. You need to stop being a doormat and set a boundary. If he lives with you he pays x amount of rent or utilities or he stops sleeping over more than once a week. If he's not interested in moving in time to break up and move on. Don't waste more of your time.

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